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Too Much Hatred

March 4, 2010

We are all a hater, be it something you hate, someone you loathe.

Hating has a way of allowing a person you hate to have some control over you, while you hate them they can control your thoughts and actions in a way you can’t quite understand. Say you’re walking on a certain sidewalk, you see your most ultimate hated ex boyfriend/girlfriend, often times, you’ll feel something inside you, a raging emotion, like, cursing that person on your mind, feeling like slugging that person until his/her face is unrecognizable. That control is something like a psychological control, and it is so wrong.

I always feel this rage, I’ve hated so many, and hating them won’t either make me happy and or contented, now I can’t hardly see the sense of it. All I can see is that control over my thoughts and actions.

I’d better forgive them rather than let them control me. D’OH! :)

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1. Tricia | February 27, 2010 at 8:52 pm

I agree with you. Hating on somebody means that that person has a big impact in your you life. I mean, you wouldn’t bother cursing him/her if s/he doesn’t affect your life. :D
2. Khayte | February 27, 2010 at 11:17 pm

Oooh, I so agree with this. Sobra. Argh, naaalala ko na naman ex ng bf ko now. Hahaha. Nakakainis talaga. But one thing I can’t do siguro na nagawa mo na, yung you’d better forgive them na lang. Forget cguro. Hahaha. You’re so mabait sis haa. ^.^
3. Gel | February 28, 2010 at 4:22 am

I like how you think :) Yeah it’s pretty interesting how hatred can eat us up from the inside but what’s more important is we learn to be more positive next time around :)
4. Chiui | February 28, 2010 at 5:31 am

yesyesyesyes. :DD just let them be and theyll live on with their hate forever. you win. XD
5. Melle | February 28, 2010 at 5:34 am

thats what they say “Stop resenting and start living”.. haha being mad/hating somebody wont make you look so pretty and you are not even sure if the person you hate gives a damn.. :-(
6. RHEA | February 28, 2010 at 5:38 am

.awww.. i don’t what words can best describe on how I can tell you that I soooo AGREE with this! hahahaha.. :D

take care sis. ;)
7. tiff k | February 28, 2010 at 9:06 am

Yes dear!! HATE IS NOT GOOD!! I actually prefer to say “do not like” because hate is such a strong word….

And yes they can control you, and you mustn’t let them do. Because sometimes dear, it’s hard to see that all the hate is in your part and they don’t even think about you anymore. Hate is all a waste of energy in my opinion when you can turn this energy into something good.

Forgiveness is the answer dear *hugz*

I MISS YOU TOO HAPPII!! im just a tweet away dear! I try to be :D
8. cheska | February 28, 2010 at 5:58 pm

that’s true, i couldnt say anymore you’ve said it all girl! :)
9. dianne | March 1, 2010 at 2:52 am

oh. nakakarelate ako. There is this girl that I hate so much. months na. haaaay. :( It is so hard to control your emotion sis. pero kelangan.
10. Mizuki | March 1, 2010 at 6:00 am

korek korek! dapat forgive and forget.. kung di mo maforget, kunware may Alzheimer’s ka nalang. XD LOL Ako I don’t hate naman. Sometimes I just get annoyed/irritated pero after that wala na, hehehe! Minsan kairita lang talaga. But I admit that I’m the one who’s wrong. I neeeeeeed more patience and understanding :D bwahahaha!

pakasaya lang tayo! yaan natin silang mga ewan! XD
11. joanna | March 1, 2010 at 7:32 am

yeah too much anger and hatred is a dangerous thing. you’ll just end up worse kung hindi ka magfoforgive.. in forgiveness we will find peace.. so we really have to let go of the things we hate..
12. Sassy-pink.com | March 2, 2010 at 3:07 am

ur ryt, wla rn nmng mngyyri kng isumpa nten cla, much better n ung i forgive but still ndi prn mkakalimutan ung mga msskit n nngyri :)
13. Rachel | March 2, 2010 at 3:24 am

I agree with you =D
14. Shiro | March 2, 2010 at 5:56 am

hi ate… was here again… hhmmpp.. ganyan talaga pag dumadating sa puntong kung anu anu na nasa isip noh.. ganun din ako minsan..

btw! please do change my link.. i’ll never use JEWEL and Labschuu anymore.. for some reason…
15. Belle | March 2, 2010 at 6:58 pm

So true.. Time heals all wounds and anger. Mawawala din yung galit na yun, esp. when you’re already happy and contented with your life. And hating is no place in your heart anymore. (:
16. geneve | March 3, 2010 at 11:16 pm

Super duper true. Parang kasi ikaw parin mag susuffer pag nagalit ka sa isang tao ikaw din ang ma HHB at hindi sila. Nung isang araw ganyan feeling ko pero nung binasa ko itong RT ni paulo coelho- “Life is too short: kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly and forgive quickly”. Napa kalma na ako. Naging okay na ako. Forgive quickly nga talaga ang kelangan.
17. Mhaye | March 4, 2010 at 3:20 am

aww naman. ano ba tamang hate?
eh pag galit ka, galit ka dba.
pero nawawala din naman yung pag tumagal ehe.
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19. Ayah | March 4, 2010 at 8:47 am

uber agree sis. ksi nga nmn, u are too possessed dun sa galit na un.kaya nakukuha nya buong time mo. tsktsk. dapat, mawala tlga ung hatred para no probs. plus panget pa xa sa health.
20. boykidlat | March 4, 2010 at 9:11 am

Its a bit different for me…

because I dont hate…

I get even… BWAHAHA…ha..ha…

nope…thats evil. dont follow my ways.

forgive yourself first for hating…then forgive the person you hate…it works better that way. :)

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