10 Signs He's NOT the One

February 5, 2010

Some people say they “just knew” that they were dating their future spouse. But what about the rest of us? What happens when you’re not sure if he’s The One? If you’re considering long-term commitment or marriage, it’s time to ask yourself some tough questions. Below, 10 signs that may indicate he’s not for you.

1. You have a list of things he needs to stop doing/saying/wearing if he wantsyour relationship to work.
2. You don’t trust him.
3. You avoid conflict at any cost.
4. When you’re sad, you don’t turn to him for comfort.
5. One of you is struggling with an addiction.
6. You can’t really imagine him as the father of your children.
7. Your long-term, non-negotiable goals in life are incompatible.
8. You don’t respect each other.
9. You’re not attracted to him.
10. On paper he seems great, but you have this strange feeling…
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